Well I got behind writing about my Love Dare. I am going to write about days 4-7. It is day 7 and it is not quite over, but I want to talk about it now...
Day 4: Compliment him. Honestly look at things that you love about him and let him know. Make sure it comes from the heart.
Day 5: Do at least one act of love and do not seek praise. Keep in mind that it is not a contest and you are not to make sure he is doing 50%. Instead you do as close to 100% you can. Everyone pulls their weight in different ways -- sometimes it is not as visible.
Day 6: Call him on the phone and tell him how much you love him. Make it from your heart, not something to check off your to do list.
Day 7: Try to be positive for an entire day. Make sure scripture study and prayer are a good part of the day. Speak only if you can say something nice. Try to not talk negatively about anything, especially your spouse!
I have been trying to be as selfless as possible. I did not intend for this to be easy. I was doing fairly decent until Friday. I have been tired and do not want to go the extra mile sometimes. So now is the challenge. Doing 100% when you really do not feel like it.
I usually hand over the kids the minute he gets home and beg for time to sleep on Saturday mornings. This weekend Christian was sweet to volunteer. He even said he would get up with our little one. But then the night progressed and I ended up with her anyway. I had to bite my tongue several times. Reminding myself I am not the only one that needs sleep!
I was not as good about it today. My positive dare was a bit of a flop. I was a grump all day. So tired and worn out. I have to work so much harder next week! I wish it was easier for me than it was today.
Hopefully I will!
